Do You Hate Your Job or Your Company? And Why It Matters

Do you hate your job or your company?

I had this realization at my desk recently:

I don't hate recruiting. I help people get a better life, a life they're proud of and can thrive in.

I hate the bureaucratic company I do it with.

There's a difference — and understanding it changes what you do next.

If you've ever felt like you can't function, can't breathe, and feel insecure all the time at work — even though you're good at what you do — this is for you.

Job vs. Company — They're Not The Same

Your job is the skill you do. Recruiting, designing, writing, selling, coding.

Your company is the environment you do it in. The autonomy, the process, the culture, the layers. The people.

When we say "I hate my job," most of us actually mean "I hate my company's way of letting me do my job."

3 Signs You Hate The Company, Not The Job

1. Lack of Autonomy

You were hired for your expertise, but you need five approvals to do the thing you were hired to do. Every decision goes up and around and back. You feel like an executor, not an owner.

2. Way Too Many Layers of Process

There are so many layers of process that you feel like you can't get anything done fast enough. The process was defined by a few people years ago and you're not allowed to do anything outside of it. It doesn't make you feel secure. It hasn't shift with the times or market conditions. It makes you feel insecure, because you're spending all your time managing process instead of doing great work.

3. No Forward Thinking Allowed

They don't encourage forward thinking. You can't do anything outside of how they defined it. You have ideas, but there's nowhere to put them. So you stop sharing them — and then you wonder why you feel stuck and drained.

If you nodded at all three, it's not your skill. It's the environment.

What To Do About It — From A Recruiter

Don't quit your skill. And REALLY don't quit without another job, especially in this environment. 

Audit it instead.

Do this daily for one week:

Open your notes app and make two columns.

Column A: The moments I felt energized or fulfilled. 
Column B: The moments I felt drained. 
And track WHO or WHAT caused you to feel each example or situation. Was it you being proactive or based on someone else's actions that affect your role?

After 7 days, look at your list. 

If Column A is light and Column B is full — you don't need a career change. You need a company type change.

That might mean:

Moving from enterprise to a smaller company where autonomy is higher and less red tape
Moving from a highly matrixed team to a lean team where you own your lane more
Or building your own thing at night where you have 100% autonomy — which is why I started Arnacci

Why I Started Arnacci At Night

My IG bio says it: Recruiter by day, galpreneur by night. Reinvented the no-show sock bc sick of heels & flats that cut into feet. Talking inventor, shop & work life.

Arnacci — is my place where forward thinking is required and autonomy is the default.

I make chic no-show socks with soft activewear fabric that doesn't dig into bunions, shimmer lingerie look with lace meant to peek, and a heel grip that stays securely all day. It's the opposite of everything that made me feel stuck at work.

If you're in that can't-breathe phase right now, start your Column A / Column B list today.

What you should do to take your power back will be revelated is in that list.

I share more work life real talk + building Arnacci behind the scenes on Instagram.

Come say hi there: @arnacci.style

P.S. If your flats are already cutting into your feet at work today, I made Arnacci for you. 

💜 Jen,
Founder - Arnacci
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